GIVE him care - continuously, consistently. It's essential for his
mental development. GIVE him your time. The hours you spend with
him mean more than you will never imagine. GIVE
him opportunities. To learn and experience new things. This enriches
his mind. GIVE him encouragement. In work and play. Do not limit
his attemps at exploring, imitating, creating, imagining and
constructing. GIVE him responsibilities, starting with simple
chores. It's good training and makes him feel useful. GIVE him the right to be different. He's unique - don't compare him with his brothers or sisters. GIVE him praise. For all
his achievements. But even more for all his effort in trying, even
if he fails. GIVE him understanding. Consider his age and
temperament when you show disapproval. You may reject his
behaviour, but never the child. GIVE him reassurance - constantly.
Never withdraw from him. Or threaten to stem your love or give him
away. GIVE hin everything he needs. Expect nothing in return. You
chose to have him - he did not choose to have you. So teach him respect for elders and filial piety. THE MORE LOVE YOU GIVE, THE MORE YOU'LL RECEIVE
© Pascal Aeschlimann Dernière mise à jour: 21 octobre 1999